It’s never too early or too late to adopt a healthier lifestyle – and the kitchen is an excellent place to start! Whether you’ve got an adventurous eater or finicky feeder, kids can learn to love (or at least accept) nutritious foods. Almost every tot goes through a picky stage, making mealtime a lot more stressful and discouraging than it has to be. If that’s where you’re at, then hang in there! We’ve got a few tips that, with practice, can help your kid come around!
Here are our top 10 easiest ways to get kids to eat healthy:
#1 Have Fun With Food.
Toys, books, and kitchen sets are perfect gateways to healthy eating. Surround your little food critic with pretend fruits and veggies, books about farming, and kid-friendly kitchen tools. Our favorite way to have fun with food? ChopChop Family’s Eatable Alphabet – a delightful deck of educational cards that teach toddlers about real food and cooking. Hello Bello employees have tested these out on our own kiddos and the vote is unanimous: Eatable Alphabet is a brilliant way to encourage healthy eating! Visit their shop and use code HELLOBELLO15 for 15% off their Activity Cards, magazine subscription, and more!
#2 Teach ‘Em Young.
The more we learn about food and where it comes from, the more respect we’ll have for it (and it might even turn your reluctant eater into a full-fledged foodie!). For some edible education consider planting a garden, growing herbs indoors, or joining a community garden. And when spring and summer roll around, visit your nearby farmer’s market as a way to learn about local food, seasonal produce, and different types of fruits and veggies. Plus, there are often samples and kids love taste-testing!
#3 Cook Together.
Make some memories in the kitchen! Kids love to “help” and mimic their caregivers, so let your wee one participate. Older kids can tear lettuce for salad, mash bananas for banana bread, or stir ingredients together in a bowl. Even babies like to be a part of the action, so pull their highchair up to the counter for a front row view. Let them smell, touch, and (if age appropriate) taste whatever you’re cooking up. And on days you can’t involve them, give your kids wooden spoons, pots, and pans to play with. Wondering what this has to do with teaching kids to eat healthier? When we engage littles in our everyday lifestyle choices (like cooking, exercising, or even chores), they’re much more likely to be curious, willing participants when it comes time to dig in at the dinner table.
#4 Set an Example.
Demonstrate a healthy attitude and relationship with food so eating fruits and veggies feels “normal.” When mealtime comes around, enjoy the food on your plate, pause between bites, chat with your dining companions, and involve your kid. Pull their highchair up to the table and let them eat what you’re eating (with necessary modifications, of course!). Note: If your family normally scarfs down their food, eats standing up, or looks at their electronics during the meal, now’s a great time to brush up on your table manners. Your little one is watching EVERYTHING.
#5 Be Nonchalant.
When picky eating strikes, make the dinner table a pressure-free zone. Don’t harp on your kid to finish their plate and, on the flip side, don’t overdo it with praise when they scarf it all down. Keep eating anxiety at bay by adopting a neutral attitude about food. Plus, let’s be real, would you want somebody micromanaging your every munch? We didn’t think so!
As tempting as it may be, don’t bargain with your toddler about food – it’ll only come back to bite you (pun intended) by creating a stressful power struggle at every single meal of the day. Do: Keep the mood upbeat and trust in the process. Don’t: Don’t force kids to finish their plate at every single meal, as it teaches them to ignore their body’s hunger and fullness signals.
#6 Give Them Choices.
Make ‘em think they’re in charge. Let your kid choose between 2 or 3 healthy options, so they have some autonomy over what goes in their mouth. And no matter what option they choose, enjoy it with them for some positive eating reinforcement. If you’ve got a particularly anxious eater on your hands, go over the weekly meal plan together and let them help you decide what’s on the menu. Afterwards, head to the grocery store together to buy your ingredients. Ownership in the process = more buy in!
#7 Get Points For Presentation.
It’s been said that people “eat with their eyes first.” This is especially true of toddlers! Here are few ways to jazz things up:
- Make a smiley face out of whatever’s on their plate!
- Use cute cookie cutters on toast or pancakes (or anything that they’ll work with!).
- Add dip whenever possible, because kids just love it! Healthy, homemade dips (like honey mustard or yogurt and dill dip) are super easy to whip up and keep on hand.
- Add teeny tiny, diced veggies to anything and call it “sprinkles”!
- Make healthy hummus cups – add sand (hummus), trees (broccoli), a patch of grass (mashed avocado), and rocks (cherry tomatoes).
#8 Be Predictable.
Just like a bedtime routine, kids do best with a cuisine routine, too. Keep mealtime and snack time predictable so your kid always knows the drill. Try offering a veggie and fruit each time they sit down at the highchair or table (maybe a healthy fat and carb, too) – over time, they’ll come to expect it and, hopefully, encountering healthier foods won’t be such a scary prospect. ;)
#9 Be Sneaky. But Not TOO Sneaky.
You’ve been hyper aware of what’s gone in your baby’s belly since day one – so you know when your wee one is way overdue for something green. Luckily, there are tons of ways to disguise veggies in any dish. Add chopped spinach, carrots, or celery to pasta sauce. Make a “rainbow pizza” with diced up peppers, broccoli, and basil. Include greens in your morning smoothie. Add fruits to a batch of homemade popsicles. Bake some zucchini muffins.
Beware: While it’s A-OK to slip some spinach or avocado into a smoothie, for example, it’s not teaching your kid to willingly eat said spinach or avo. But hey, if they’ll slurp it down and you’re desperate to boost their nutrition, then go for it. Just don’t give up on intro’ing them to real, whole foods (in their original form!) as often as you can.
#10 Try, Try Again.
Teaching kids to eat (and enjoy) healthy foods is a process. Remember: If your little one turns up their nose at avocado one day, it doesn’t mean they’ll refuse it next time – keep offering and exposing them to it at different times and in various forms. In other words, don’t give up! Stay consistent and patient as your baby’s taste buds and preferences grow and develop.
And if they never come around to kale or cucumbers or [insert healthy food here] – it’s ALL good. Celebrate the foods they do enjoy (and consider a kid-friendly multivitamin to be extra sure they’re getting those essential vitamins and minerals)! You’ve got this!
How do you get your kids to eat healthy foods? Please share your ideas in the comments!
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My question is how can one establish consistency with eating between two coparenting homes? Eats fine at moms and won’t eat a thing at dads.
Intentionally caring about our children’s nutrition is one of the BEST gifts we can give them!
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First of all, those cards look awesome! Love the illustrations! What are y’all’s thoughts on those meltable teethers or puffs for babies? We’re trying to wean off purées but not quite ready for solids, is there a good option in between?
These look like so much fun! My girl is a pretty decent eater but I’ve also found that letting her kiss her food, make it fly on the utensil, touching it to her nose, etc. has been so helpful with new things lately! I think these cards are a great way to learn foods, colors annd the alphabet all at the same time!
I have a delicious chocolate chocolate chip zucchini recipe that I turned into muffins (and even mini muffins) that has gotten every picky eater in my family to devour, I’ve made this recipe with monkfruit sweetener and chocolate chips as well to be dairy and sugar free!
Chocolate chocolate chip zucchini muffins:
Yield 18 standard muffins
1 cup flour (all purpose or almond if going gluten free/diabetic/keto)
1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
3/4 cup brown sugar (or monkfruit sugar for diabetic/keto friendly)
2 eggs
1 1/2 cup pureed zucchini
1 cup chocolate chips (or monkfruit chips for diabetic/keto)
1 tbsp vanilla
Purée zucchini the. Add eggs and vanilla and purée till creamy.
In a bowl combine all other ingredients except chocolate chips.
Combine purée and dry goods and mix until combined, add chocolate chips and scoop into muffin tins.
Bake at 350°F for 17 min or until toothpick comes out clean.
The easiest way for us to get our 2 year old to eat healthy foods is for us to have them on our plate and have her watch us eat them. If we give them to her on her plate she wants nothing to do with some food but if it’s on our plates, she wants all our food.
This is great! I like to offer my toddler whatever we are eating, and it’s up to him to decide what and how much he eats. No pressure! If he says he’s all done then we trust him, he can eat later but it has to be at the table.
My babies/early toddlers always ate really balanced and healthy. THEN, they have the nerve to start forming opinions! What would be the best tip to KEEP these kiddos chomping that broccoli?!
This is such a great list! One thing I’ve recently added for my 3 year old are cute animal food picks. It’s added to the fun of meal time and he’s eating a bit more than he was before!
For our family, we let the toddler pick whatever fruits and veggies she thinks looks good. Usually blueberries and corn. But we also ask her to try one new fruit or veggie for each season. She will eat fruits and veggies alllll day. She is my healthy and unpicky eater.
Cooking with little ones create such lasting memories! Letting them pour, scoop and mix are great ways to learn to love food! It allows them to take ownership of their food too!
I love love love this collab! My little one was a micro preemie born at just 26 weeks gestation and feeding has been a HUGE stressor for me. We came home on a feeding tube and everything. We eventually were able to start oral feeds. A lot of these tips especially those that encourage letting our little ones take the lead are so helpful for someone like me who has often has felt anxiety around feeding. I find that listening to her and showing her that I trust her, has been the most successful way to get her to form a healthy relationship with food.
we serve her dessert with her meal! i’ve noticed it helps her want to eat everything, aaaand it helps me because i very much dislike the whole “you need to eat all your dinner before you have dessert!” mindset. so like, healthy food habits, healthy food relationship. ✨
Love these tips! We already incorporate some of these at meal times but could definitely use them more. What’s the best strategy when your toddler won’t even touch a food that they previously loved?
I’ve tried all these things, and my 3 year old still struggles to not only eat healthy, but eat consistently in general. Her pediatrician is not worried, but we want to get her to eat more in general. Ideas??
Piggy backing on the “Be predictable”- I try to always offer a food that my toddler is familiar with, whether it is a fruit/veg and just make sure he at least has something comfortable on his plate as a starting point and I find he is more inclined to try the other items!
I absolutely love all these ideas. I think setting an example is a huge one!!! We are our kids hero’s and if they see us stuffing our face with junk food and then telling them that they need to eat healthy not only is it going to confuse them but they are less likely to choose healthier alternatives. Monkey see monkey do.
A good way I get my girls to eat is involving them in the making of the food. One is almost 7 and loves to help. My youngest is 2 and I’ve seen that the more she helps make her meals the more food she eats. They both get to choose a healthy snack after the meal.
Regarding picky eating, how do you make sure little one eats SOMETHING? Even when giving my 18 month old foods he’s had and enjoyed before, sometimes he won’t eat. Is “he’ll eat when he’s hungry” applicable here?
Best thing I ever did was baby led weaning! Skip the hassle of purées and let them eat what you’re eating.
This list is fantastic!! I’ve also found that not obsessing about desserts/sweets helps kids not crave them as much – aka, normalizing sweets equal to healthy options